Distracted
I just can't seem to get my head into writing these past couple weeks. I don't know, maybe it has something to do with the fact that we are just about to put our house on the market--I mean for real--like we need to be ready to up an move, cross country, really soon...Then again, it could take months and months, but the last time we listed a house in a down market, we had a buyer in a matter of days, and then life took on a rythm of another pace altogether.
So, anyone know of anyone who wants to buy a gentleman's farm and an arsty house?
Believe it or not, my father has been looking at farms in our area. Of course, nothing as nice as yours. If I could, I'd move in in a New York second. Well, that is, as long as the house isn't upstate. I'm not really crazy about 10 feet of snow.
ReplyDeleteYour home looks beautiful, very welcoming. Wishing you a quick sale!
ReplyDeleteAnne, Too bad he's not looking in Michigan! Though I dare say, we didn't get as much snow where we are as you all did out East!
ReplyDeleteJoanne, Thanks, we're hoping for a quick sale, also!
ReplyDeleteIt is a beautiful house. My husband and I designed the interior around our needs and tastes--alas, at 50-something, it's time for us to grow up and assist parents!
Hope the sale goes well. We have been trying for quite some time. A very difficult market, but it is true that you only need one buyer.
ReplyDeleteI will reserve the horror stories for another time. ;-)
Thanks, Michael. It is kinda scary given the economy we're up against...I hope things work out for you, as well :)
ReplyDeleteWriting requires the expenditure of a fair bit of emotional energy, and sometimes that energy is being used up elsewhere. Totally natural.
ReplyDeleteAnd luck with the sale!
Bridget I'm also distracted and struggling to get going on my new novel. Filling the time with short stories which is fun, but I must break that no-write barrier on my second (serious) novel. I know I can complete more tahn one full length novel - I've 6 nonpublished romances under my belt, but this new novel...eish! I'm procrastinating and I'm not even selling my house. YOur artsy house is stunning, BTW!
ReplyDeleteJudy (South Africa)
Bryan, You are right, for sure about the emotional expenditure...I think too, with all that is going on in Japan, it's one more draw on my reserves. really great piece you wrote on that this week...been meaning to comment on it, but that's just how scattered I am...
ReplyDelete...and thanks about the house. I'm just going to try not to think about it too much...
Judy, I can so relate! Oh my goodness...so many projects! Sometimes it's such a challenge to build up the momentum for another story--and a novel is no small undertaking. I have a new one started, myself, but sometimes those old ones call to me. Tooooo many distractions! Best wishes on your current WIP!
...and thanks, about the house. You'd think the artsy environment would inspire me, but it's just another distraction, lol...
If that picture is the one on your sales brochure I think you'll sell fast. I'm tempted to come look at it myself. It looks beautiful and I can only imagine that with your artistic sense the rest is just as nice. Wishing you a fast and painless transition.
ReplyDeleteLisa, Thanks for your kind wishes! :)
ReplyDeleteThat picture is part of my office, along with a slew of other photos (the virtual tour) that we'll attach to online ads. My husband is very clever with finishing details, and we're really hoping that will sell the place in such a down economy...time will tell...
Oh, Bridget, I would certainly buy it if I could... it seems to be a wonderful sanctuary, especially for an artist and writer like yourself. Won't you miss it?
ReplyDeleteI must admit that I know little about both of your inquiries. However, I am familiar with the mind interfering with our inner voice from being heard. I recently read a book by Laraine Herring, titled the Writing Warrior, because I felt as though I had some writing blockages.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if this may serve you or not, but she suggests breathing exercises, and shaking things out. Whenever I can't seem to get focused, I practice deep breathing, shake my whole body, and listen.....I never seem to be prepared for the deluge of thoughts that burst through my soul and onto the waiting page.
Writing is an occupation in which you have to keep proving your talent to people who have none.
ReplyDeleteLaura, I'm sure you'd love it here, but no lake! Indeed we will miss it, but we realize it is just a 'place.' You know how it is with moving around so much--you enjoy it while you have it, but to put too much emphasis on a physical location and material things only sets a person up for disappointment. We will remember this place fondly (though I have the feeling, with the economy what it is, we will be around for a while!)
ReplyDeleteBrown, Okay, if I decide to give that 'shaking it out' thing a try, I'm going to have to make sure my husband is nowhere around! I also have the feeling that after I've shaken things out, and then listen, I'll hear something like the sound of bee-bees settling in the corners of a vast boxcar, lol!
'You', I'm still at the point where I'm trying to establish my 'talent' with those whom I respect. I suspect that once my work gets out there, I will feel the brunt of your words!
Cheers!
I, too, have had trouble getting to the writing these past few weeks. But, unlike you, I don't have a legitimate excuse.
ReplyDeleteOr maybe laziness is a legitimate excuse... Either way, best of luck with the sale!
it' them coyotes,,,
ReplyDeleteNate, Probably illegitimate excuses are far more fun! :)
ReplyDeleteYeah, Glenn, them coyotes are like baby-snatching dingos, dragging off my creative energies!
Yes, Bridget, as a self-described nomad, I definitely see your point. But I must admit that I'd be heartbroken to give up my summers in northern Michigan. While a place is often just a place, there's something indescribably magical, refreshing, and inspiring about Big Bear Lake. Of course, now that a neighbor clear-cut hundreds of nearby acres, my wooded hikes won't be what they once were. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteP.S. While I wish you and your hubby lotsa luck in selling your house, I selfishly hope that I can visit you first! After all, I've owed you a visit for a couple of years now - haha!
Laura, I hope it works out this year, too! :)
ReplyDeleteME! I'd by the farm and artsy house... sadly I live in Australia...sigh.
ReplyDeleteTabitha, wouldn't you like a seasonal house in the US? lol!
ReplyDeleteMe. Too bad it isn't in my city. Heck, it isn't even in my country. :(
ReplyDeleteStina, wait! Don't you live in the US? Don't you need a summer home?
ReplyDeleteWhat this place really begs for is a (rich) couple (no kids), who loves artsy stuff, gourmet cooking and shooting deer off their balcony! What do suppose our chances of finding that is? lol!